Annoying Empath Problem?
So Avoidable!
Annoying Empath Problem? So avoidable, the biggest problems that folks bring to me as an empath coach. Please, save yourself time. Simple advice and free resources are here in this article!
There’s more than one unnecessary-and-avoidable problem that some empaths face. Here I’ll go into two of them: each one is totally, perfectly, completely solvable. Yes, totally! Perfectly! Completely! Solvable!
Therefore, when I say “annoying,” that really means solvable. Can you relate to either of the problems listed below?
Annoying Empath Problem #1.
“My Holistic Healers Suspect I’m an Empath. Now What Do I Do?”
Guess what! Joe was left high and dry, worrying like crazy. Since the way his healers talked to him, you’d think he was waiting to be diagnosed for some dreaded kind of disease.
- They “suspect”? More than one of his holistic healers “suspected”? Why were they looking in this direction at all?
- Were these holistic healers qualified to tell if somebody is an empath or not?
- And, if not, what on earth were they talking about? They might as well say, “I suspect that you were delivered to my office, thinking you were human while actually you’ve recently been manufactured by a 3-D printer. Have you got a care label?”
Clearly I’m glad that Joe found me, a professional Empath Coach. What happened during our session? Early on, I used actual skills to research that, and then give Joe a straight answer. You know: Based on expertise as America’s most experienced Empath Coach.
So Many Things I Could Have Suspected, But Didn’t….
Since Joe was in session with me, trustingly hoping to make his life better, maybe it would have been fun (for somebody — not me, but somebody) to share new suspicions outside my area of expertise:
- I suspect you have a funny, ticklish part of your left foot.
- I suspect you reneged on a New Year’s Resolution from 17 years ago.
- Most grim (and outlandish) of all, I suspect you’re not as good a dancer as you think you are.
But of course I don’t tell my Energy Spirituality clients things like that. Because I know my scope of practice. Therefore, I don’t presume to speculate about other things that may or may not be true about them.
So here’s my first tip to those of you who might be worrying. All due to something that some well meaning person told you might be a big deal about you, helpful advice offered as a hunch or an intuition or — to seem even fancier — told to you as an “I suspect.”
Don’t take on that kind of Annoying Empath Problem. Just because some expert in your life has professional skills as a chiropractor or Reiki healer or massage therapist, hello! Here’s a question you might ask:
“Is this thing you’re suspecting… something you’ve learned about as part of your professional training? Or does this really lie outside your scope of practice?”
Also, “What is an empath? Do you know?”
An honest answer can help you to stop worrying about the “big problem” which somebody suggests… might be really, really important. Or, even, true!
How I Helped Joe to Solve
His Annoying Empath Problem
As I began sharing with you earlier in today’s article, Blog-Buddies, I used my skills as an empath coach to research whether Joe was an empath or not.
Surprisingly (or not) it turned out that Joe wasn’t an empath at all.
Actually, he wasn’t even a Highly Sensitive Person. (According to my research, all empaths are HSPs. And only 1 out of 4 HSPs is an empath.)
How CAN You Find Out Whether You’re Really an Empath?
Booking a session of Energy Spirituality Energy HEALING isn’t the only way to find out if you’re an empath. Here’s your link to an Empath Quiz designed to Bring You Clarity.
Easy-peasy!
Annoying Empath Problem #2.
Becoming a Skilled Empath Is Too Much Work
“For years I’ve been working at this! I’ve read many books — not yours, Rose, but other books that were advertised at Amazon, so I found them first when I searched on Empath.”
“Maybe you can explain to me why I have to work so hard.”
Provided that you really are an empath, I can teach you to gain great skills, and gain them easily. After a bit of practice, all you “do” to maintain your empath skills takes just two minutes per day. Total.
But first things first: Let’s be clear that what I teach is different from what others teach. Even if they play copycat with the names I’ve developed:
- “Empath Empowerment® (the only trademarked system in America for empaths!)
- And “Empowered Empath.” Which isn’t just some random meme but included in the titles of two of my published books. Can you find them?
- Book One: “Empath Empowerment in 30 Days”
- Then Book Two: “The Empowered Empath — Quick & Easy”
- Book Three: “The Empowered Empath — Owning, Embracing and Managing Your Special Gifts”
- Following that, Book Four: “The Master Empath”
For Pity’s Sake
Please don’t hold me responsible for what random authorities recommend. Especially if they’ve made YouTube videos or written articles or developed Facebook groups… and have given them, you know, copycat names.
Yes, that includes:
- “Empath Empowerment: Crystals and Techniques”
- “The Empath’s Empowerment Journal”
How clever can these folks be if they can’t even come up with their own names… for their “original” ways to help empaths? You know, there’s good reason why, by law, trademarks protect unique discoveries.
When I Teach Empath Empowerment®, Guess What?
It’s easy to learn. Effortless, actually! My most popular book for empaths has you read one short chapter a day for a month. Then do up to 10 minute of fascinating homework. And then you graduate as a Skilled Empath.
Excellent empath skills will make your life easier. Empower you, even!
Look, you can’t change whether or not to be an empath. That ship has sailed. ;-)
Because all of us empaths are born that way. And empaths we’ll remain, for life.
Where does your choice come in? You can choose whether or not to learn effective skills, life skills, that make you an empowered empath.
Otherwise, get used to settling. And settling for what? Settling for the everyday suffering that comes to empaths who only have talent, not yet skill.
I sure hope you make that choice for more use of your full potential in life. Because I’ve helped thousands of empaths to have better lives. I’d love to help you, too.
